THE WORST QUESTIONS YOU CAN ASK YOURSELF TO FIND YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE

THE WORST QUESTIONS YOU CAN ASK YOURSELF TO FIND YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE

“What should I do with my life?” and “What is my life purpose?” Yet you probably have asked yourself these crappy questions a thousand times. Your answer… Just like 99% of everyone else is…. I DONT KNOW, OR IM NOT SURE. These questions will stress you out….Its too BIG..its overwhelming… furthermore your life and your life’s purpose is always evolving.. If its not… then you are not evolving… you are not living.. not living a true purpose…not living life. Life is not a fixed target to hit…not a destination….Goals are. But life is not a goal to be achieved… It is meant to be lived. ITS DYNAMIC. You will experience ups and downs… You will feel lost and you will feel found. Your life purpose will change over time. The more experiences you have the more clear it will be. These experiences will change you. Some for the better…some for the worse…but that will be your choice. The problem for most is.. You think you need to find your life’s purpose …then do that. This is backwards. You need to take a lot of action… and through those experiences… your purpose/s will unfold to you— ) Knowing when to evolve and change your course based on new information/experiences… or deciding to “stay the course” is a question I work with many of my clients on …..There is no magic cookie cutter answer there…. stop looking for it. You need to learn from the examples of someone who has been where you are … and is where you want to be. But also….You need to quit looking outward for the...

((((((TIME MANAGEMENT FOR BADASSES))))))

Imagine you have the opportunity to hang with Tony Robbins for 3 days in Fiji, go to a luncheon with the Dali Lama, and have a meet and greet with Bill Clinton all in the same month for free. And you don’t hesitate to say NO to all 3 “opportunities” We recognize those names because of what these great men have created in their lives. Napoleon Hill called it “Definiteness of Purpose”. When you are so focused on your mission everything else will seem meaningless. Gary Keller calls it “The One Thing” (great book). Know what you want to create and learn how to politely say no to everything else…and everyone else. The month I had these 3 invitations I said NO…I also received 68 additional lunch invites with folks asking for some version of “picking my brain”. Some were offended and there persistence only lead me to never want to meet them. I’m focused on developing my coaching business lately and so I reached out to 4 coaches last week who charge 50-100k per client. I’m extremely interested in how they attract that level of client. —-All 4 offered to help me—-I did not ask. I approached each of them with the same level of respect I would give the President. And they responded. I never once asked them for anything… not even to meet because I realize how valuable their time is…. Realize anyone with whom you want to meet…lots of other people probably want to meet as well. Successful people have a clear outcome for everything they do…. They’re definite in their purpose.. This is why...

Legacy

Alfred Nobel was a chemist who created 350 patents in his life time…amongst those the most popular was TNT (dynamite). In 1888 Alfred’s brother died in an accident and the news papers published Alfred’s obituary in error. Alfred read his own obituary in horror. The headline read “”THE MERCHANT OF DEATH IS DEAD””. Alfred’s invention of dynamite did in fact lead to the death of 100’s of thousands of people, but he said then and there : “This is not how I want to be remembered, This not who I am, This is not my legacy, This isn’t what I want my impact on the world to be.” SO HE CHANGED HIS STORY… and with it he changed HISTORY. In 1895 he created the Nobel peace prize which today gives away over 100 million dollars a year to promote world peace. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. What do you want your legacy to be? Release the past. Surender to the real you. The big you. Love and accept yourself. Create space within yourself that will allow you to grow, evolve, and prosper. Life is yours for the making. Create your powerful legacy today. Love, Eli Share...

????WHERE DO YOU GO WHEN THE TORNADO COMES????

Life can be like a natural disaster at times…. A real Sh^t storm if you will. We’ve all felt life’s tornado touch down upon us at one time or another. Some seek shelter, some weather the storm, some get caught up and get taken away, some get just angry. So, Where do you go… and how do you handle the storms? Imagine a Tornado about to touch down around you. Whipping and whirling at 200 mph. Dark, Cold, and Dangerous… I believe you have 3 options. YOU GET LOST IN THE STORM- Carried away by the drama. Lost, angry, asking questions with no real answers, like…”Why me? Why now? Is God punishing me? If only i had…If only I hadn’t….” Lost in the mind….Swept up by life’s storm a casualty of an unconscious mind. YOU DISASSOCIATE- This would look like- taking a step back. Just looking at the storm. Still being affected but acting like you are not. Checking out mentally or emotionally. This is the person who has lost in business and now says….”Money and career aren’t important. “ This is the person who has lost a love and now says “Relationships aren’t important”. The one who screams “ I don’t give a Sh^t.” What this person is really saying is ….”I care…but I’m hurting ..i’m so afraid of being hurt and let down again that I am afraid to feel. “ A disassociated life is not a life. OR>>>>> YOU STEP UP- This requires strength and courage. You STEP DIRECTLY INTO THE STORM. You stand in the eye of the Tornado conscious to all the chaos spinning...

***Habit Myths- Routines- Accountability- Standards &&& —THE CONVERSATION THAT CHANGES YOUR LIFE.***

***Habit Myths- Routines- Accountability- Standards &&& —THE CONVERSATION THAT CHANGES YOUR LIFE.*** DO YOU BRUSH YOUR TEETH EVERY MORNING? Well- I hope so. But have you ever forgotten.? Ever? Has something happened? You Woke up late?—You Had an emergency? Been in an Emotional funk? Been curled up with your lover?…Or just been in such a rush that you didn’t do it? I used to forget every Christmas morning…My Mom would have to remind me…lol We’ve all been taught that habits are these “things” that we do for 21 or 30 days 60 days…then they just become “automatic” for life. This is simply not true. I bet you had habits in the past- Good habits- that you No Longer have. Especially if you played high school or college sports. You worked out..you ate right ..you made fitness and athletic goals..you couldn’t go 4 hours in the day without looking in a mirror ..stepping on a scale..or measuring your progress in some area. You were given grades- scores- marks- you were tested amongst your peers and you sought to better yourself..to win and to improve. Maybe it was a reading habit, -a self love habit- a nutritional habit -or a meditation habit that you had that you used to live and die by… And now —-maybe you’ve been caught up. Nights of reading, journaling, exercising, quality time and self mastery have become nights on networking, of late-night dinners and a few too many drinks that ruin or take away form a productive morning. Or perhaps its late night TV, internet obsession, Facebook following, gossip etc. “We are what we repeatedly do”…...
HUNGRY EYES

HUNGRY EYES

<<<<<One Look at You and I Can’t Disguise Those……>>>>> HUNGRY EYES!!! You know the tune from Dirty Dancing! Don’t act like you don’t!! When I was young and we finally got a VCR we had one movie… I wanted Conan… Mom wanted Dirty Dancing. Mom still knows best. The life lessons in that movie are endless. It wasn’t until years later that I was taught a whole new lesson from the song tittle above. I was in my early 20’s at a bar, talking with some friends…. At that age I can’t say that Sex is the only thing on a guys mind… But it certainly is toward the top of the list. I was a late bloomer to say the least but I was always profoundly curious about what makes people successful, in relationships, money, health… everything. I had a few friends that were incredibly successful( my definition of success then) with women. They didn’t seem any more attractive or confident than most, and i remember asking “How is it that you seem to go home with a different girl every time you go out?” The answer I received took me a long time to fully comprehend… He said its all in the Eyes. Its all in the Energy given off and the Eyes tell all. He pointed out a few girls who were scanning the room half heartedly engaged in conversation with their friends.. looking around the room constantly. That constant repetitive glance about he room says one thing… She believes the best place in the room is somewhere other than where she is… no mater who...
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